Thursday, October 31, 2013

Assessment Of Maturity ???

Maturity, this word also  forced  you to think like me, when someone comment you that you are immature, or you are immature to handle this work or don’t interfere between us as  you  are immature. Basically human being can’t be immature his behavior can sometime make feel others that he is immature.

when it comes to me I think a lot what is maturity where it comes from, mother’s tummy, genes, by reading books, pretending to be sincere or from our surrounding, but I cannot able to find answer. If I want I can learn many things from 5-year-old baby means, is it possible for 5 year baby to be mature? I asked this puzzle to so many people to solve; one of them told me maturity is a behavior state in which you reacts correctly at correct place and time. Now again new question arises who will decide about this!!  A person who is declared immature, definitely not, then person with whom he behaved??  in his view, he can never tagged him mature, as his views perception is different from that immature person, or people standing outside of that matter and giving valuable expert comments or we can say judging both of them. If it happens then some of them having same thoughts same reactions go with tagged immature person and judge him and his behavior correct and some will go with other party. So again confusion remains same between mature and immature personality.

Actually nobody is wrong in their judgment perception given is based on upbringing, surrounding with whom company person is spending his time, everyone has different principles, morals to lead their life, some give importance to voice of  their soul and some outer pomp and show, so their views and reaction on same subject will definitely be different and conflict arises. Some cannot compromises with the principals they are living, for them self-respect is their life, when issue arises they become violent  and for  others that is not a big issue they want to show themselves innocent in their surrounding and for that they can compromise at every issue, their  reaction index will surely be low .

 Nobody can challenge others maturity it all depends on how that matter is related to their life how it make difference to their life and how it will affect their personality isn't it ??